No it’s not. The people who think it is are either insecure, telling on themselves, or acting from unhealed trauma

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No that’s not bad at all, the only people who believe that are extremely insecure and paranoid, and usually sexist

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It’s crazy bc I’m bi and my friend has this mindset and we’ve argued about this. I personally think that mindset is rooted in insane levels of insecurity bc whether you have a friend that’s the opposite gender doesn’t dictate whether you’ll cheat or not

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As long as you have clear boundaries it’s okay

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Man I have stupid trauma from this type of relationship. I tell my boyfriend everything about my guy best friends because I don’t want him to be upset (he doesn’t give a fuck but he also understands why I do it. He’s a sweet heart)

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most girls don’t realize that the guys they are friends with would most likely hit if given the opportunity.. unless they are gay and some cases if they are in relationships

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