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I have a really low libido cause of meds I take and I told my boyfriend that before we even started dating. Flash forward to current day he still begs me to have sex everyday and gets mad and annoyed when I say I’m not in the mood. Asking to have sex is..
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Anonymous 7w

NTA + break up

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Anonymous 7w

Also a huge turn off for me and I’ve said that too. But now I think he’s cheating on me or at least going to so I feel constantly guilted into having sex with him when I don’t feel like it

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Anonymous 7w

Break up

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Anonymous 7w

Why is he even with you if he knew that was gonna happen? He’s a clown

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Anonymous 7w

Girl no if that man is trying to pressure you into smth leave that loser. That’s so gross of him.

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Anonymous 7w

Every so often I have stints of super low libido, for like a couple months at a time, and I always felt bad for knowing I was likely disappointing my bf, but he never made me feel bad about it and would tell me it was okay and just cuddle w me instead. My libido has been fine recently but he stopped taking his SSRI and also experienced it, and in the moment I cared more about him being disappointed in himself, especially knowing how it feels, than I cared about being turned on.

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Anonymous 7w

NTA

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Anonymous 7w

LEAVE HIM!!!!

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Anonymous 6w

Funny that the one above this was about a girl who wanted her man to use her rather than fap

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

I wasn’t turned on anymore because he wasn’t at all. Which is more normal than guilting someone or being mad at them for not being able to just turn it on.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

read your sentence again. you shouldn’t ever feel like your partner could be or is going to cheat on you. you shouldn’t feel obligated to provide sex, or do it to prevent him cheating on you. his love for you should prevent him from doing that. already a large 🚩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

A dude’s gotta get off. He has to.

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