Every so often I have stints of super low libido, for like a couple months at a time, and I always felt bad for knowing I was likely disappointing my bf, but he never made me feel bad about it and would tell me it was okay and just cuddle w me instead. My libido has been fine recently but he stopped taking his SSRI and also experienced it, and in the moment I cared more about him being disappointed in himself, especially knowing how it feels, than I cared about being turned on.