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My boyfriend only talks about his long-term future plans with his friends, like living together or traveling, but he doesn’t really talk about future plans with me. Should I be concerned😭
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Anonymous 2w

depends on how long y’all have been tg tbh. if it’s been years then yea cause you’d hope by then you would see eachother in your futures, however if it’s only been a few months then nah that’s something that takes time to build

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

okay so im good? its been 9 months

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

oh yea ur good girl esp for men it takes them a bit longer to build that futuristic idea w someone us girls are just dreamers lol i used to scare my finance talking abt the future and now we’re living tg and engaged it just takes them a lil bit of time lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i needed that tysm😭 bc hes always saying his future in a way where hes like, oh i would want to live in japan with my friends for a year and live in apartments back home with them and never saying anything about me, when should i fr start worrying then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

he could also possibly see you in his future but not wanna speak on it because he doesn’t wanna come off controlling/overeager it could go both ways cause ik japan is a huge move and it’s respectable for him to not pressure u into thinking thats ur only option if u wanna be with him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

i honestly wouldn’t worry abt it too much because it’ll come naturally as y’all flourish as a couple things just take time and don’t always have a set “due date” for when they’re gonna happen yk?

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