Like I need a job, and this would fast track me into a job I want but even if she told my mom the job is mine if I apply, I don't want to work for someone with the values I remember her and her family having. I don't care if she doesn't care that I'm gay now, I care that at one point in time she didn't care enough to get her son to stop bullying me.

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Yeah absolutely NTA from another gay guy. Fuck that bs

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You’re judging this woman just as much as her son judged you. You have no idea how she perceives your sexuality. We also both know full well that a mother telling her child to stop doing something doesn’t necessarily mean they will.

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It just depends on whether you want to put your feelings about them aside for the job or not. If you don’t think you’ll regret it later then no

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If her son is like that, so is she. That behavior was taught to him. Keep looking for a new position where the staff will treat you with kindness and acceptance.

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