AITA on Yik Yak | IKITA, but in a relationship i feel like i treat them with about how much sex we have like i can’t pull boyfriend/husband level stuff when someone literally treats me like a friend like you can’t expect more when you don’t really give anything, sad to see

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AITA 1d

IKITA, but in a relationship i feel like i treat them with about how much sex we have like i can’t pull boyfriend/husband level stuff when someone literally treats me like a friend like you can’t expect more when you don’t really give anything, sad to see

Anonymous 1d

is sex the only thing that differentiates a romantic relationship from a platonic one

Anonymous 18h

I think it’s really sad that the only thing you perceive as being given to you in a relationship is sex, especially as an asexual. A romantic relationship is much more than that.

Anonymous 14h

i mean honestly everyone perceives their relationships differently so you’re not necessarily TA. that being said, you can share closeness with a partner without it requiring physical affection and it’s still unique to your relationship. if i were you i would establish what a fulfilling relationship looks like for YOU. if physical intimacy is an utmost priority then communicate that with partners. the way you present things matters, so be open while also considering their POV. It’s all balance!

Anonymous 5h

this post single-handedly just made me deeply question everything i thought i knew about relationships

Anonymous

#1 1d

I mean, I would say so unless you fuck your friends

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Anonymous

OP 1d

Do you kiss your friends?

Anonymous

#2 18h

also no

Anonymous

#3 13h

well my love language is physical touch but it’s not like intimacy what so ever, like no kissing, no hand holding, no sex like i said like nothing but i couldn’t write all of that in the post