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AITA for being jelly of my bfs friends? My only issue with my bf is that he’s always going out to dinner with his friends and not me.And they’re usually girls. Im not worried about cheating, ik it’s not what’s happening. But do i bring it up to him or not
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Anonymous 13w

only way to get clarity is to bring it up to him. You are allowed to have certain feelings about what he does but you need to express the negative feelings towards him so that he knows. It is much better to talk to someone about it than to think about other scenarios because you do not have the information. Regardless of who you are, he cannot read your mind so please try to ask him to take you out more even if it kills you to have to ask (been there). best of luck to you

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Anonymous 13w

So are you jealous that about the fact he’s going out without you or is it a thing where you’re okay with him going out without you but you wish he went to dinner with you more often?

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Anonymous 11w

That’s kinda weird that you’re not invited then idk

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Anonymous 3w

I should be following this. The same thing is happening to me, but the opposite. I go to lunch with a female coworker every day we work and I think my gf is jealous in the sense I’m spending time with another person and not her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I’m so okay with him going out without me! It’s just he’s going to dinner with his friends every other day and hasn’t taken me out in weeks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

NTA then. I would recommend having a sit down talk with him about it and express how you feel and see if you can make a plan to work it out.

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