AITA on Yik Yak | My wife and I both want kids I just don’t want it to be my biological child. My side of the family has so many mental and physical conditions that develop later in life. However I don’t want my wife to feel I don’t want to give her my kids either.

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My wife and I both want kids I just don’t want it to be my biological child. My side of the family has so many mental and physical conditions that develop later in life. However I don’t want my wife to feel I don’t want to give her my kids either.

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Anonymous 1d

Have u told her?

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Anonymous 20h

There is a very simple solution to this but I am going to need you to sit down first

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Anonymous 1d

Get a donor

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Anonymous 10h

have an honest conversation with her, its the only way

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Anonymous

#1 12h

Not yet

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Anonymous

#3 12h

Which is?

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Anonymous

OP 9h

I would tell her, I think she deserves to know. You have a few options, donor (it could be her bio kid and u could choose a donor that looks similar) , adoption, or you could do genetic testing to see what genes you carry issues wise (or find a male family member who tests negative so that way it’s still a kid who’s bio related to u)

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Anonymous

OP 8h

If you are not going to get her pregnant then another man is going to have to do that

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