AITA on Yik Yak | My wife and I both want kids I just don’t want it to be my biological child. My side of the family has so many mental and physical conditions that develop later in life. However I don’t want my wife to feel I don’t want to give her my kids either.

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My wife and I both want kids I just don’t want it to be my biological child. My side of the family has so many mental and physical conditions that develop later in life. However I don’t want my wife to feel I don’t want to give her my kids either.

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Anonymous 2w

Have u told her?

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Anonymous 2w

There is a very simple solution to this but I am going to need you to sit down first

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Anonymous 2w

Get a donor

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Anonymous 2w

have an honest conversation with her, its the only way

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Anonymous

#1 2w

Not yet

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Anonymous

#3 2w

Which is?

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Anonymous

OP 2w

I would tell her, I think she deserves to know. You have a few options, donor (it could be her bio kid and u could choose a donor that looks similar) , adoption, or you could do genetic testing to see what genes you carry issues wise (or find a male family member who tests negative so that way it’s still a kid who’s bio related to u)

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Anonymous

OP 2w

If you are not going to get her pregnant then another man is going to have to do that

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Anonymous

#3 2w

Obviously?? That’s what donors are for big dog

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Anonymous

#1 2w

Never considered testing myself, thank you so much!

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