NTA preferences are valid, it’s normal to only date people you’re physically attracted to. As long as you’re not like bullying short dudes it’s fine lol

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Nta for wanting someone bigger than you, kinda weird to have a preference for people more muscular than you if you don’t go to the gym or don’t have muscle yourself lol

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You’re allowed to have preferences lol everyone does

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NTA

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So you could also like not be fat and then you could be justifiably shallow

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I have the same thing girl, I need a big boy

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You can have whatever preferences you want, and hopefully you find someone who likes you too. But I think there is something to be sad about being realistic with your odds.

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NTA that’s totally valid.

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Nta, if you like dudes that are bigger than you than you like guys bigger than you. If ya lose some weight you can open your options too! Or not, it’s your life, do what makes you happy ❤️

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Nta, everyone has preferences, if you prefer taller/buffer guys, that’s what you’re into. There are plenty of guys that fit that description that are into big girls. Just cause a skinny/short guy doesn’t do it for you that’s fine. Because there will be skinny guys that make it seem like big girls who have a preference are shallow or have an ego. I’ve had friends who were skinny, and stereotypically pretty/popular, but yet I was more confident and had more people hitting me up. 🤷‍♀️

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