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AITA?? my dad is driving me up a fucking wall
my dad has been an ass all day and he snaps at ME going "i had that there bc i was gonna do the onions!" like IM SORRY that i dont want the fucking kitchen TRASH CAN next to me and smelling that horrible STENCH, while im trying to make a sandwich???
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Anonymous 6w

i’m just confused. so he was using a cutting board?

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Anonymous 6w

Yes yta

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

yes. and he put our kitchen trash can right next to it so he didnt have to walk as far to throw out the outside of the onion. but it was also in the way of the walkway between the cutting board and our fridge like i couldnt move much. so i moved it to where we normall have it, and thats when he snapped.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

i mean it sounds like it was pretty obvious what he was doing. i wouldn’t call you an asshole but you surely aren’t in the right on this one tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

i needed to make a sandwich and i wasnt going to stand next to a stinky ass trash can while i made it. plus, i didnt want to have to move around it every time i got stuff out of the fridge. i told him i would put it back when i was done, and i did.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

you’re high key in the wrong here and sound very spoiled. there’s much worse things in the world than standing next to a “stinky ass trash can” while making a sandwich. make it somewhere else if it’s bothering you that bad. he was there first

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I know what it’s like to get pissed off at a minor thing after a day’s worth of shit so I’m gonna extend some sympathy, but come on. He was using the kitchen for its intended purpose. Most people move the trash close while chopping or cracking eggs (my family certainly does). He wasn’t trying to be inconsiderate — you weren’t even eating the sandwich, just making it. My nose is sensitive so I get it but I would’ve just left and made it elsewhere. Soft yta

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

how can i make my sandwich elsewhere, when all the ingredients i need to make my sandwich are in the fridge/kitchen? also he could have been a bit nicer, rather than snapping at me like "hey! you shouldnt have moved that" and practically scolded me for it. like chill out, i moved it back when i was done. no need to have an anurism.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

also, he wasnt even actively chopping the onions, he was sitting down in the living room, so i just needed space for a few minutes to make my sandwich and then i would go in a different room to eat it, yes.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

That’s an important detail, that he wasn’t in the room. Changes the scenario

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

our living room is connected to our kitchen. so he was sitting down watching tv and out kitchen overlooks the living room and he saw me move the trash can so i could make my lunch and then put it back before i left the room.

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