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is it weird for my boyfriends ex girlfriends sister to text him asking to use his ski goggles? she said “ i remember where you live so i can just come by at 7 to get them.” he said im overreacting for saying its weird & that she shouldn’t feel that comfy
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Anonymous 2w

she def shouldn’t feel that comfy. he’s not dating her sister anymore. she shouldn’t even be talking to him. makes me feel like his ex still talks to him too

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Anonymous 2w

she’s no longer a part of your life so that’s crazy

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Anonymous 2w

This might be a hot take but I need more context, honestly it could be chill. If he was close to her fam and he’s on amicable terms with his ex this isn’t that wild imo.

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Anonymous 2w

I mean are they regularly texting? If not it may have just been that she didn’t wanna go buy ski goggles and knew he had some and figured it wouldn’t be a big deal

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

he rarely went around their family. him & his ex haven’t talked since they dated because “she hurt him” and he never really talked to his sister according to him

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

come on yall, please be fr. i have never in my 22 years of life thought to text one of my sisters’ exes bc i think they have something i needed. that’s just flat out weird and it crosses a boundary.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Oh hell nah this is weird af, I would also be so uncomfortable. Her reaching out totally breaks the precedent of their dynamic. Why would he want to do a favor for the sister of someone who hurt him and who he’s not in contact with?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I mean just because you haven’t doesn’t mean no one has ever. Maybe she doesn’t know how they broke up and thought it was amicable, or maybe boyfriend lives in a small town, or maybe he’s lying about how close they were, or maybe the ex is having sister go over there to see how things are. Tbh OP instead of speculating I think you need to just see how they interact when she comes by.

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