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aita for not wanting my roommates long distance boyfriend sleeping in our room when he visits?
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Anonymous 1w

i mean why don’t you tho😭 where else would he sleep… they probably rarely get to see eachother just let them enjoy their weekend

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Anonymous 1w

no it’s ur room too but u need to communicate that with ur roommate

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Anonymous 1w

i mean it’s her room too, where else do u think he would sleep? maybe have a communication with ur roommate of boundaries for how often he comes over ?

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Anonymous 1w

Depends how often he visits

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Anonymous 1w

nour

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Anonymous replying to -> sage_smirking55 1w

Yea it’s not her room. It’s our room. I don’t feel comfortable because I don’t know the guy and I don’t trust them not to be inappropriate while I’m sleeping. I don’t think it’s unreasonable for them to sleep on the couch or get a hotel.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

it IS her room AND urs. ur feelings are valid but could u also try get to know the guy to allievitate this feeling (and you didn’t mention there was a couch which i think is also a valid offer and a good solution while you don’t know each other) but if you are in college i feel like it’s unfair to expect other college students to pay for a hotel room when they already have to pay for travel to see each other.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

but baseline this should be something talked about with your roommate sharing a space is hard but you should both be able to feel comfortable and happy in ur space.

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