
And it smells so badly. She just got back from work and smells like shit and she just gets in bed. She said she was thrown up on at work and just doesn’t gaf about showering right away… like… am I crazy for being genuinely grossed out and not wanting her in here?? She also never cleans and I’m going to stop vacuuming her side of the room and trying to keep her stuff decent… please help, talking to her hasn’t helped and I hate it
I’ve thought about it and my hesitancy is that we’re in the same learning community. It’s small, like 25 people, so I’d still be around her constantly and I feel like it would just cause more issues. I’m talking with a friend and we might live together next year so I’m not overly overly worried, but still… I just don’t want to cause a ton of issues within the group
I know the snoring isn’t something she can control and that’s not what frustrates me the most. She’s aware she snores and just doesn’t care about it at all. I’ve woken up to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night and I can hear her snoring from a few doors down, that’s how loud it is. When I bring it up to her, she thinks it’s funny how loud it is… if that was me, I’d be mortified and want to change so I just don’t get it
I have. We’ve had a couple more conversations since my og post and she literally does not gaf. I told her that it could potentially be something concerning bc we’re literally 18 and snoring like that isn’t normal and she laughed me off and said I was being dramatic. Her parents know she snores like that too and don’t gaf either I don’t know what else I’m suppose to do