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I want to end things with a guy because he was horny at the wrong time. I go through cycles where intimacy disgusts me and I avoid it. Last night the guy texted me about a filthy dream he had about me. I wasn't in the mood so I said so. He kept going-
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Anonymous 3w

hell no if he doesnt listen the first time u say something like that set him free

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Anonymous 3w

It took a few texts of myself awkwardly trying to say no. I was really high so texting was a bit hard. He finally stopped when I flat out asked to change the topic. My friends suggested that we discuss boundaries but the whole thing just made me feel gross. He apologized today and said that he was just in a mood and should've thought about my feelings. While I appreciate him wanting to do better, it still happened and I still feel gross that saying I wasn't into it wasn't enough for him to stop

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Anonymous 3w

I think you should end it. But also for the future communicating what ya said about said cycles could be helpful

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Anonymous 3d

“Horny at the wrong time” translation: “I made him think I was into him but I just wanted to get myself off”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Did you even read what I said???

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Yeah. You made him think you were into him because you were horny, then you told him that you weren’t into him lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

So if you learned how to read, you'd see that I was actually going through a period where intimacy disgusted me. If you are able to use context clue, you'd come to the conclusion that I was in one of those periods when the guy came onto me. Because he came onto me. I didn't initiate anything because I was the complete opposite of horny

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Whatever you say bud

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