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my mom is upset because I said I’m the forgotten child for her not showing up to my one and only college move in/dorm shopping, research presentation to my school, not getting the one gift I asked for 8 years straight, or the birthday cake I wanted
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Anonymous 6w

for my 16th bday, meanwhile my sister got a 300 person party and all I wanted was a stuffed bear, NOT EVEN BUILD A BEAR, ahem… and saying that she’ll probably forget my graduation and my white coat ceremony ontop of not getting financial support tuition wise when my sister got tens of thousands but I didn’t mention the last part

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Anonymous 5w

Cut your family off, go silent, grow and become successful, then watch them try to interact with you, not because they care, but because they want to know what’s going on. Fuck your mom.

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Anonymous 5w

We are not required to love our parents 💖 put as much distance between u and her as you want, disregard any guilt trip she gives you, and take whatever steps necessary to heal. :) a therapist would tell you the same thing. (I highly recommend therapy in general btw)

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Anonymous 5w

if you’re not financially reliant on her, just stop giving her attention. you’re an adult now and can remove people from your life as you please !!

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Anonymous 5w

i’m in the same situation… debating on whether or not to invite her to my white coat ceremony… any chance you’re the oldest child too?

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Anonymous 5w

I know it seems unfair, but the lord teaches us to forgive know matter how hard it may be 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

you tag thjy

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

Ew.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I’ve debated not inviting them to my white coat ceremony when u become a doctor and cutting them off a bit, but I think the problem is really just my sister is needy and demanding and I’m not so my parents give her all they have and there’s nothing left for me, so it’s more so I’ll cut my sister off 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Your parents and your sister are the problem. Until you learn that, you’ll be taught lesson after lesson…

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

I’m the youngest, miracle baby too my mom had me when she was much older

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