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Just found out I’m pregnant. I’m only 19. I kind of want to wait a few weeks to see if I miscarry. My boyfriend says I should get it done ASAP. We’ve been fighting ever since. Am I in the wrong or him!?
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Anonymous 6d

Okay so what are your local laws about abortions?

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Anonymous 5d

Unless you are taking action to purposely miscarry, I would go ahead with the abortion, the sooner the better

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Anonymous 5d

Neither of you are wrong for how you feel. I understand he’s probably just anxious and wants to act quickly but ultimately it’s your decision legally not his

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 6d

California so pretty liberal about it up to 12, I have to be four weeks right now I just missed my period but I’m not sure yet

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Okay so you definitely have a chance of miscarriage but it isn’t super likely unless you’ve got health things that would cause it that you know of. Why is it that you are wanting to wait?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Honestly trying to purposely miscarry is very likely to cause harm to her and not work, so don’t try the at home things. Drinking won’t kill the baby, random drugs won’t either, the carrots or papaya or other things aren’t effective. A doctor is much more reliable and safe for her

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5d

Exactly. What I mean is I don’t see the purpose of waiting to see if you will miscarry unless you have reasons to believe you will

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

You don’t know for sure how many weeks you are- it’s rare (ish), but you can get pregnant on your period and you can be pregnant and menstruate. So I don’t want you to wait thinking you have all the time in the world but then find out waited too long and have to carry to term.

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