AITA on Yik Yak | for “not returning” my friends dress? She loaned it to me for halloween LAST year and i told her literally the next day to lmk when she would be free so i could return it and repeated the same thing for like a week until i gave up. now she’s claiming -

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AITA 9w

for “not returning” my friends dress? She loaned it to me for halloween LAST year and i told her literally the next day to lmk when she would be free so i could return it and repeated the same thing for like a week until i gave up. now she’s claiming -

Anonymous 9w

- that i “stole” it even tho i literally asked her numerous times when she would be free so i could drop it off or have her pick it up. like WHAT DOES SHE WANT FROM ME CAUSE I DONT THINK ITS THE DRESS😭😭

Anonymous 9w

Have you hung out at all since it was lent?? I personally would’ve had that dress in a bag hanging on my door ready for the next interaction so it was always in sight and wouldn’t be forgotten in a closet.

Anonymous 9w

Leaning towards nta - but also, why weren’t you just like “hey I have your dress n I’m dropping it off.” Like could have been more forward about it? But also her fault for not accepting it too when you offered A LOT

Anonymous 9w

YTA just try to drop off the dress. It’s not yours and she has a right to be annoyed

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#2 9w

cause i don’t want to just show up unannounced if she’s busy or not home idk if it were like an item id be fine leaving it on the porch but it felt wrong to just leave someone’s clothes outside atp i might just mail it to her and call it good 😭

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OP 9w

Yeah I’d just tell her “you have until Monday to pick it up/ let me drop it off, or I’m gonna mail it to you”

Anonymous

#3 9w

This too!! Forgot to ask if yall had seen each other since?

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#3 9w

no she never wanted to hangout or anything idk man she’s making me think something happened that night that i’m an aware of cause she just stopped coming around our group around that time it’s just weird to me that she wants to stir up drama now when ive literally been more than happy to return it if she let me

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OP 9w

Ohhhh maybe she was looking for a reason to pick a fight? 🤔

Anonymous

OP 9w

Thats bizarre 😵‍💫 like if she wasn’t feeling the friend group anymore idk why she’d lend a dress. Either way if she was that bothered she also had plenty of time to grab it or bring it up herself throughout the year. NTA

Anonymous

#4 9w

did we read anything i said lol? i have tried i’ve asked her several times to where she ignores me. i even stated im literally just going to mail it at this point cause im sick of it. i’m actually very aware its not my dress in fact i do not want the dress babe. pls tell me this isnt how u handle all ur convos cause ur reading comprehension is an all time 0😭

Anonymous

OP 8w

And now I have a clue why she chooses not to communicate with you. You let me know exactly who you are. Mail the dress and try to move forward with less attitude and blame.

Anonymous

#4 8w

girl are you well?😭 i got her up and said “hey! lmk when your free so i can drop off the dress!” she ignored me. i then asked again for the next few weeks until i gave up and assumed she just didn’t want it since SHE NEVER SAID ANYTHING. god damn can u not read bro wtf am i supposed to do if she’s not answering and then comes back A YEAR LATER telling me i stole it WHEN I DONT EVEN WEAR IT AND LITERALLY BEGGED HER TO TAKE IT BACK. if this is rage bait u won cause ain’t no way ur that toxic

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OP 8w

*hit her up** since ik ur dumbass gonna make a comment abt the typo and take ts literal too😭