AITA on Yik Yak | AITA planned golf and lunch date for my girl (she asked me to golf before and I’m not good it’s not like I’m dragging her). She asked if we can see a movie too. I said idk if I’m feeling it. She said she’d ‘just go with someone who was excited to’.

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AITA 12w

AITA planned golf and lunch date for my girl (she asked me to golf before and I’m not good it’s not like I’m dragging her). She asked if we can see a movie too. I said idk if I’m feeling it. She said she’d ‘just go with someone who was excited to’.

Anonymous 12w

Nah dude, that’s kinda rude of her to just discount the rest of the date that you put the effort and thought into planning. Also I’d be in the same boat, that’s a LOT for one day

Anonymous 12w

Your girlfriend is being rude and unreasonable. even more than that ungrateful!

Anonymous 12w

Spent the next hour apologizing. If she woulda emphasized how much she wanted to I would have said yes. Am I crazy

Anonymous 12w

no you’re definitely not the asshole. it sucks that she didn’t appreciate all that you’ve planned and spent on her especially with her saying she’d go with someone else like wtf??

Anonymous

#1 12w

Like bro this tee time was 100 bucks let’s find something free to do😭

Anonymous

OP 12w

Oh Jesus 😵‍💫 I’m so used to cheap golf courses. Regardless though, even without the cost of that I know a round of golf can absolutely suck the energy out of you, especially if it’s hot out

Anonymous

OP 12w

I can see both sides of it. She’s def the asshole if she threw out the rest of the date/wasn’t grateful just because there was no movie. I could also get her being upset that you only want to do it if she emphasized how much she wants to. It doesn’t make you an asshole, you’re allowed to no want to go but it can hurt if someone only agrees to do something after you have to put emphasis into it. It’s not fun doing something knowing the other person never really wanted to do it and you had to beg.