NTA - this is not a healthy dynamic and it’s clear they do not have a mature take on the situation. So sorry this is going on!

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tbh… break up if they arnt willing to give porn up

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NTA what kind of an idiot would rather watch porn instead of having actual sex? It would be different if you were long distance

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They claim I’m just insecure and that porn is healthy

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If he would rather do that than have sex with you, it’s okay IF you’re okay with that. If you’re not, there needs to be a healthy compromise. Otherwise break up with him because sounds like he has no respect for your wants or needs.

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No they’re making sexual history with someone who isn’t their partner girly that’s cheating in my book.

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NTA. you have a clear boundary, and he isn’t respecting it. i know you live together, but please leave him and make him find another place to stay (it’s his fault you guys are breaking up anyway, he sounds like a complete dick based on what i’m reading in the comments). you deserve so, so much better. you’re young! you have plenty of time to meet someone who will actually respect you!

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