AITA on Yik Yak | Gonna trigger the people who think you’re allowed to toss your friends to the side when you get in a relationship but whatever. My best friend and I stayed close the first year she got a bf but this year it’s different. We go weeks without talking

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AITA 13w

Gonna trigger the people who think you’re allowed to toss your friends to the side when you get in a relationship but whatever. My best friend and I stayed close the first year she got a bf but this year it’s different. We go weeks without talking

Anonymous 13w

nta, if shes not putting effort in but still pretends to want to that can be extremely frustrating. it’s completely understandable if you want to cut her off or say “hey you havent been putting in as much effort as i need in my friendships so either do that or I need space bc it has been hurting me” (up to u obvs)

Anonymous 13w

Weeks without talking or hanging out (I go far for school so we really only would see eachother over breaks but even over breaks she doesn’t make an effort) I continuously kept putting in effort so I finally stopped. She kept sending me tik toks talking about how great low maintenance friendships are. This really made me mad bc it’s like obviousely it’s great for you that you can go months without putting effort in and I’m still your friend. She’s always there if I really need help with anyth

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OP 13w

(2) but personally that’s not enough for me. I love when a friend can be there for me but if we don’t talk at least every week or so it feels like we’re strangers. Worst part is her bf lives in the same town as her so when I’m away at school they hangout every day so you’d think when I get back she’d wanna see me, usually I’m the one texting her for plans so I decided to sit back and so far she hasn’t texted at all for plans.

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OP 13w

(3) she does very minimal effort things like “omg i miss you hang soon” but no effort to actually make plans. I want to just cut her off but is that bad if she didn’t really do anything ‘bad’ just stopped putting in effort?