I am a of course college girl and I want to go party and drink (he hates drinking and ik im underage) anyway. When he visits I feel like an old version of my self. I want fun, I want to party and have fun and of course love but it’s hard. I find myself liking attention I get and wanting a closer connection with a friend closer. NOT CHEATING. I don’t condone that. I don’t lead it on. But I feel drawn to it. More than “hey how was your day” We’re just both so busy. I don’t want to loose him.

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my advice is... talk to him about this. tell him you are in a different place then you were in high school, th

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I don’t know if you’re wanting him as a long term relationship, but people change and you guys won’t fall in love with the same person you once did. You’ll fall in love again and again throughout life. You’ll need to show him that you’re changing as a person, and if he doesn’t like it, then it may be time to part ways. Why be with someone if you can’t truly be yourself?

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It sounds like you two just want different things. I was in a long distance relationship through most of college, and it worked because neither of us really cared to party or anything like that. As far as wanting a closer connection with someone, I’d definitely tell him about that. Just let him know where you’re at. Communication is all you have in long distance, so I encourage you to focus on that

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