AITA on Yik Yak | just cut off a best friend of 2 years. he’s and boy and i’m a girl he talked to a girl for 1 week exactly cut me off for her and then after she ended things wit him he told me i need to be put in his schedule to hang out! he’s “available” in february TF

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just cut off a best friend of 2 years. he’s and boy and i’m a girl he talked to a girl for 1 week exactly cut me off for her and then after she ended things wit him he told me i need to be put in his schedule to hang out! he’s “available” in february TF

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Anonymous 6d

nta, thats such a dick move

Anonymous 6d

he’s not a very confident person so when he said oh she’s cute but got to shy to go up to her i went up to her and asked her for her number for him. i consider my self his wingman

Anonymous 5d

I used to think it was a valid take to do that but after a girl had me block every single woman who followed me on instagram(if I was following them it was even worse) and would get upset over me even being in the same vicinity as other girls while she hung out with guys constantly, I’m convinced that if Im friends with someone no one else can reasonably tell me not to be friends. Much less a potential wife because that shows a severe lack of trust

Anonymous 6d

Good for him ngl. You have to understand that relationships are important to people and that in order for their relationship to feel secure things like this have to happen. I have a friend that I’ve known my whole life, but the guy she started dating a few years ago felt insecure about me, so she cut me off. I understand that, I have no grudge. Grow up

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Anonymous

#2 6d

first i like to say they have only talked for a single week. he knows i’ve wished him the best i have always helped him get with girls he was interested in, he knows im gay like im a full masc lesbian i currently have a gf of 3 years as well

Anonymous

OP 6d

Yeah that’s fair, but sometimes you gotta show you’re committed from the get go. She doesn’t know who you are and s lot of girls have trust issues

Anonymous

#2 6d

but i also don’t mention that his whole friend group is just girls and wouldn’t you know we are all either gay or straight and taken. but i would also like to say he’s never mentioned me to the girl and i’ve never heard of her none of his friends have . she cut him off cus what he told me she said she felt bi curious. i’m the only friend that got iced out which is how im hurt

Anonymous

#2 6d

i get where ur coming from but this is 2 different situations and this has happened before where he cuts only me off when he get with a girl then when she ends things with him after a week he comes running back wanting to hang and be bestie bestie again

Anonymous

#2 6d

id like to hear more of ur opinion about this and if u want the full story rather than the short i can go into deeper conclusions with screenshots as well

Anonymous

#2 6d

they have only talked for 1 week and she’s bi curious now after ending things with him i’m actually the one who introduced them to eachother

Anonymous

#2 6d

It’s less about being cut off and more about treating people like you can pick them up and put them down. You can’t cut someone off then come back and expect things to be the same.

Anonymous

#3 6d

YESSS EXACTLY then when he comes back he like “im sorry broo you still my bestie”

Anonymous

OP 5d

literally wtf then thats so messed up esp if u helped them kinda get together