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AITA for getting the ick that my almost 22 year old girlfriend who I just started seeing’s mom still takes her phone away from her as a punishment? Like I just don’t know how I can’t date someone that still has that happening
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Anonymous 4w

does she still live with her mom

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Anonymous 4w

NTA that sounds draining af and it’s really weird that her mom treats her like a child when she’s an adult

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

When’s she’s not at school yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

so this is only while she’s home?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I guess but not really, her mom calls her like every 30 minutes

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Thank you that’s my pretty much my stance on it as well. Like I recognize that it isn’t entirely her own fault like it just sounds like her mom is a bit of a demonstrative control freak but then do I really wanna be potentially going into a family down the road where my mother in law will be like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Nah I would get out before that happens. If she’s doing that rn then yeah she’s gonna be a very intrusive mother in law

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