NTA. he should enjoy doing things that make you happy, even if he doesn’t enjoy them himself

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I’d say NTA, but as long as he isn’t rude about it I’d say he isn’t TA either. It’s normal for different people to like different things.

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Lame asf, where’s the whimsy? If my partner wanted to dress up on a Tuesday in February for some random thing and they were really excited about it I’d dress up.

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NTA, my boyfriend outright told me everything about halloween was stupid after i told him halloween was my fav holiday. he told me he didn’t want to dress up, trick or treat, anything.. he texted me today and said his friends invited him to go trick or treating in costume and he went with them… may this not be my final love

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NTA, if you guys were planning something for Halloween, the costume is implied

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Agree with 3. NTA since you have the right to want your partner to participate in things you enjoy. But he’s not necessarily TA either for not being as enthusiastic or checking if it’s something he HAS to do. I like dancing. My bf doesn’t. So sometimes when I ask him to do it he may not want to and that’s okay.

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You aren't an asshole for feeling upset, but none of us have any contact for how you're acting because of those feelings. He's not an asshole for not doing something he doesn't want to do. The question sounds like he's evaluating how important it is to you, which you feel he should already know?

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NTA he a lameo

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NTA if yall already had the costume setup he’s wrong for backing out late. if he doesn’t like halloween and this was when you were suggesting the idea then it kind of a weird middle ground where neither of you are TA

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my bf worships me. every gug ebfor him didnt. trust itll come to you just know uour worth

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how could you possibly be the asshole for having feelings? totally valid

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Leave him

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meh, communication could maybe be better. if he’s able to ask that then you aren’t explicit enough or he is probs not an empathetic person and that can be its own can of worms

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no ditch him

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