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Would it be weird if my boyfriend has a spare key to my apartment but I ask him to knock before he comes in / I let him in? I have a spare key to his but always prefer for him to let me in rather than me letting myself in & don’t like when he does it
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Anonymous 2w

Not weird, knocking is generally expected and/or considered polite when visiting people’s residences in most situations, even if the door is unlocked

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Anonymous 2w

Not weird. Boundaries and consent are important for a healthy relationship

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Anonymous 2w

not at all, i have a spare key to my gf’s place but i always knock alongside letting her know my eta when i head there. i think its an important courtesy, plus i always love seeing her smile light up when she opens the door for me hehehehe

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Anonymous 2w

do you have roommates?

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