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i sent this email to my teacher, am i unreasonable?
6163 upvotes, 106 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in AITA. "i sent this email to my teacher, am i unreasonable?"
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Anonymous 3d

I mean I think you handled it really well. There’s not really a fully respectful way to say a teacher is wrong

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Anonymous 3d

I think this is really respectful and you have a right not to be confused

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Anonymous 3d

absolutely not. this was a respectful request written with concise language, and its not an unreasonable request. I would have emailed too, starting 5 minutes early just does not make sense, especially for those who commute.

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Anonymous 3d

I would have their department chair attached to the email

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Anonymous 3d

I’m so impressed by you op

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Anonymous 3d

Not at all. This is a very valid concern!

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Anonymous 3d

I agree with ya OP, and this comes off as very polished and professional. Sometimes appealing to both sides: logic and humanity allows for change in behavior without feeling too ‘brute forced’. 73-44

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Anonymous 3d

If this wasnt the most respectful way to do so, i dont know what would be

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Anonymous 3d

this is beautiful you should write emails for a living

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Anonymous 3d

this is actually really good, definitely post an update if they respond, i’m interested what they say

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Anonymous 3d

The Batman of whatever class this is

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Anonymous 3d

i love this

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Anonymous 3d

That’s so professional I woulda just talked shit or crashed out behind the profs back

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Anonymous 3d

Yes

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Anonymous 2d

this is valid

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Anonymous 3d

I don’t think you are being unreasonable at all and this was a well written email. I’m impressed for real

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Anonymous 1d

I wanna be like you when I grow up OP. You’re cool beans 💖

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Anonymous 3d

I think it's fair and well done! but imma be so fr if I got this as a teacher I'd prob get annoyed at u for the rest of the year 😭

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Anonymous 3d

Can you send one to my prof who always goes 5-10 min over?!

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Anonymous 3d

No u ate

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Anonymous 1d

VERY RESPECTFUL👏🏼👏🏼

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Anonymous 3d

Definitely valid but bro might be out to get u now

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Anonymous 3d

this is very respectful good for you op for advocating for yourself and your peers

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Anonymous 3d

i hate when teachers do this too!!!!!!

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Anonymous 3d

You’ve got an amazing prof bc some people would have taken that personally and been like actually fuck you

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Anonymous 3d

10/10 BROUGHT THE STATS WITH IT, RESPECTFUL, FIRM— PERFECTION

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Anonymous 2d

I need the response 🙌🏻🙌🏻

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Anonymous 2d

Great job

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Anonymous 2d

yes

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Anonymous 3d

The only thing I would say is be sure your watch is accurate

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Anonymous 3d

Nah you ate. We love a respectful request

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Anonymous 2d

you cooked ngl

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Anonymous 3d

PURRRR

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Anonymous 3d

Wwww on all sides

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Anonymous 1d

AND WELL SAID👏🏼👏🏼

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Anonymous 3d

Beautiful, you made a really uncomfortable comment respectful

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Anonymous 3d

👍🏾

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Anonymous 3d

Plus if the class is recorded the recording starts and stops exactly at the class times

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Anonymous 1d

Kindof borderline… It’s not an email I would send

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Anonymous 3d

Being too nice

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Anonymous 2d

This is so fake you obviously wrote this in your notes, looking to karma farm 😭

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Anonymous 3d

How about you wake up earlier and be respectful. Who are you to tell a professor to start teaching their class?

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Anonymous 3d

This isn’t impressive and obviously ChatGPT wrote it 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

yea the class builds on itself, so if i miss the first 7 min (and he moves quick) i am confused for the rest of the class

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

i preciate it thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

i knew he may not understand why it is such a big deal (which is understandable), thats why i backed with statistics while still keeping it concise. not straying from the point but giving clear explanation.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I think the statistics can be a bit rude because you’re assuming he’s gonna argue with you instead of assuming he’d understand. That undertone makes him more likely to get defensive. But that’s my only critique

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

what us the difference than saying a couple students miss some of your class and 7% of uour students miss 9% of your class ? like hoe could i word that better

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

how*

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Depends on the class, if it’s a stats class OP might get a smile.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3d

binary coding class, so he is a big numbers guy as am i

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Well giving numbers almost suggests that you think he’s gonna say “yeah so what a couple students miss?” If you don’t provide that data. If you just say a significant portion of students come right at 10:30 then you suggest you think he’ll find that valuable even without exact numbers

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Also it almost dumbs down his intelligence by saying 5 minutes is 7% of the class

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Anonymous 3d

You can forward it to the chair after sending the email

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

yea i see what you are saying!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

OP W

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 3d

he was nice about it im just tryna learn ! i go to class, i sit in the front row, i dont go on my phone, and if needed i participate. ljke theres really nothing he can be mad about… also it is his first class ever teaching at this university so it may just be an adjustment thing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Oh that def makes a difference! If it was like a more seasoned (old af) teacher they tend to be stuck in their ways and are offended by students breathing the wrong way according to their syllabus. But if they're new I'm sure they actually appreciated it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3d

They responded

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

you my inspiration frfr

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

op you are so goated. have a blessed day

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3d

Chat in fact didnt write it!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

#noteverythingisai

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 3d

yea but i was taking so much extra time studying that i crashed out and needed to change something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Giving the numbers to a numbers guy will always work!

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3d

Idk how dumb people are these days to think everyone needs chat gpt. Like you’re only projecting your issues. You’re a university student and can’t write an email? That’s on YOU

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 3d

whats his email

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 3d

how about i have a class right before it that ends at 10:20, and the walk from one building to the next is 8 minutes so i physically cant get there?

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3d

why don’t you actually check and prove it’s ai instead of projecting your insecurities?

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Anonymous replying to -> #30 3d

and even then i wrote it like why the hell would i post something on here ai people need to get a grip, the whole point was just asking if it was respectful to send regardless

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

W professor

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Great job, I’m sure your fellow students are thankful and I bet your prof has hella respect for you for reaching out like that!! Really impressive tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Nah it was perfect, especially if he’s a numbers guy. If anything I think he would interpret the stats as OP being nervous to bring it up and wanting to explain as much as possible.

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 3d

It’s literally the same font that ChatGPT copy/pastes in.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

W professor. that gives me some hope in the world

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

W student advocating for yourself and your classmates, respectfully too. and W teacher for hearing you out, realizing their mistake, and making an effort to improve it

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3d

that doesnt make any sense, my teachers response is in the same font? i screenshotted it off my email

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 3d

The class is scheduled on 30 and the professor is the one who broke the rule. They are the one being disrespectful

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

The good ending

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

WWWW

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 3d

If your class is scheduled to start at 10:30, Start it then. People have classes prior and should not be expected to be there early. OP was perfectly respectful in their email.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

BASED PROF AND OP!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3d

That feels like an unnecessary escalation before hearing their response. Probably won’t help the professor feel sympathetic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 3d

This comment is made by a professor with 1.0 score on rate my professor

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

YOU ATE

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Anonymous replying to -> #48 3d

its not recorded sadly either

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 3d

Someone who’s paying thousands of dollars to sit in that class

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3d

Why would OP take time out of their day to fake it? Ur just a hater man

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Wait this is actually a fucking W all around

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Anonymous 3d

I’m a fan of Georgia myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3d

Reposting this minus the insults since that apparently got deleted. Moral of the story, you’re saying they used ChatGPT bc “of the font”, and here is the evidence that you are incorrect on many level, as this is in no way, shape, or form, the font chat gpt “copy/pastes” in. On many levels

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 3d

It’s quite common knowledge I fear, that ChatGPT copy/pastes into outlook in that font. I work argue because it doesn’t matter but insulting people over that says a lot more about you, than it does me🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3d

I dont use outlook!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I use times new roman always because it looks more professional. my settings are set that way! even look at the response from the professor in that font. No need for insults!

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3d

No it doesn’t, it copies in your default browser font, which is what is in ChatGPT source code that I identified for you 💜 so again you’re wrong, and a bit silly

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3d

Is chatgpt the only system that uses that font..? Times new Roman is universal I fear. Just because you would write an email using chatgpt doesn’t mean others would. People take writing classes.. writing is very much a skill human beings have had for a very long time. Where tf do u think chat gets it from?

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 3d

THIS. THANK YOU!!!! I have not and will not ever apologize for the skills I have practiced and polished. I am a strong writer.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Op W prof W

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

AYYYY

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 2d

you sound jealous and insufferable. go read a book

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Anonymous replying to -> #54 2d

not true at all, im not an avid yikyaker but i was genuinely worried about sending this email, i literally looked at my friends tonight and was like look omg i had no clue this would blow up like this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

this is such a W

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Anonymous replying to -> #55 2d

its commented under here

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 2d

yea fr that part

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Not all heroes wear capes

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