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AITA My roommate asked if I could leave an item I borrow from her for school while I go out of town this weekend (it has a value of $20) so I asked if I could bring it to do my work and she hesistantly said yes. I feel bad for asking but also it’s $20…
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Anonymous 3w

If it’s $20 bucks YTA purely for not buying one urself once u realized it’s starting to unconvinced her

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Anonymous 3w

YTA. 1) you’re the one borrowing it from her, she’s doing u a favor. 2) she still said yes to you taking it, so why r u complaining. 3) if it’s $20, buy it your own. come on man..

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Anonymous 3w

Dude you’re the asshole and you know it. Flip the script and tell me again how your on the right. Ffs, It’s not yours, she asked for it back, you know she was uncomfortable asking and letting you keep it… buy your own, and apologize to her.

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Anonymous 3w

It’s literally a Bluetooth mouse to work on my graphic design projects. I just feel bad because she’s really like particular but I said I’d replace it if anything happened and she was so hesistant. Like I’m sorry for breaching ur comfort but you offered me it. It helps so much w my projects.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

So she asked you to have her own mouse back and you asked to take it with you instead? Yes you’re the asshole, majorly here. Buy your own mouse! Stop taking her shit ESPECIALLY when she asks for it back? She shouldn’t have to ask for her own shit back regardless

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Jesus Christ I forgot to check back, yall are the real assholes here. Also clearly none of you are women because sharing is extremely customary, esp among roommates. She borrows my stuff ALL THE TIME and I never throw a fit about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

xDDDDD Just because I respect someone’s boundaries I’m not a woman? Really? Fuck off.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Baby girl I think we’re all women, you’re just a bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Lord. Maybe I fucking am because idgaf and honestly don’t think I’m in the wrong still. Also holy hell yall are extremely rude and oddly heated. Get a grip pls!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I am feeling like this isn’t gonna change your opinion, however she doesn’t use it and was asking for me to leave it in my room in case it gets damaged or lost… I would happily replace it if I damaged it which I’ve told her is how I roll when she’s borrowed my things or I’ve borrowed hers. I ended up leaving f it there anyways because she asked me to but I just thought it was stupid because she doesn’t use it and I don’t mistreat her items that I borrow so was planning to return it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Idk I just thought it was irritating and dumb like I wouldn’t care if she borrowed something of mine whatsoever esp if it was something kinda cheap. I just don’t wanna buy one cus after this semester I won’t need one and she offered it to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Also if her boundary is me asking to continue borrowing something she doesn’t use and offered to me then she needs to rework her boundaries. If it were something more serious like me going into her room and taking it without asking, I would understand, but she gave it to me. Sharing doesn’t usually bother a regular person who grew up sharing things. I don’t know I just think it’s stupid and a lot of other shit has happened that has been really frustrating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You are in the wrong for taking something of hers after her explicitly asking for it back. I’m not sure what’s so hard about that to understand

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Taking anything but accountability for your actions 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I didnt take it, she gave it to me . She didn’t ask for it back. She asked that I leave it at home LIKE I MENTIONED. I asked if I could bring it, she said yes but made me feel like an actual piece of shit to even ask to continue borrowing the TWENTY DOLLAR VALUE item that SHE OFFERED to me. She has borrowed far higher value items from me and has never even offered the courtesy of asking to take these things places, but I’ve always been chill because WHO CARES.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I’m sorry I just don’t really think I did anything wrong by asking to continue borrowing something I already had permission to borrow and honestly wasn’t expecting these heated responses from random people on yak. I just needed to complain because my friends already don’t seem to like her and I don’t want it to get worse from me complaining about her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

And it’s literally just 20 dollars, you can buy one lol

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