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AITA 3w
AITA for wanting to find a way to tell my amazing gf that I want her to lose weight because I want to be with her forever meaning I want her to take care of her health so that we can be together for as long as possible
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Anonymous 3w

NTA you want her to be healthy weight and there’s nothing wrong with that. I would just say hey I’m going to the gym you should come with me. Or start off with walks and say you want her to join you

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Anonymous 3w

how overweight is she

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Anonymous 1w

NTA but def gotta be careful with that convo lol. I’d start it by saying “we” need to get in shape lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Definitely overweight, it is past chubby

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

if it’s to a point where it could actually effect her health i would just encourage to do more activities tg that require physical movement like going on walks at the park or going on a bike ride you don’t need to directly tell her she needs to lose weight to help her become healthier and it shows your also willing to put in the work to take care of household as well

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