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My friend claims to have PTSD. I’m not one to wave off trauma, but as someone who has nightmares, flashbacks, and can’t function in relationships normal anymore it pisses me off. She doesn’t have PTSD btw
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Anonymous 1d

She says it about minor inconveniences too. Not actual traumas. She told me how traumatic some storm was bc it “rained a lot” , meanwhile I had just evacuated from Helene and saw dead bodies…

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Anonymous 23h

Never be afraid to confront a peer you got this.

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Anonymous 22h

I think the most emotionally intelligent way to handle this is to nudge her to talk about her trauma w professionals. Tell her it’s uncomfortable for you (because it is) to casually talk about trauma because you have your own trauma you struggle with

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Anonymous 1d

Sounds like ur both retar*ded

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Bro I was assaulted, raped, and the stuff I already mentioned, I can’t control that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

and how do u know ur roomie hasn’t gone through traumatic experiences? seems like u have a victim complex and want to “out trauma” her 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I’ve known her since kindergarten. She can drop smth and say it’s traumatic. My thing is the overuse of it. She could have trauma but she says EVERYTHING is traumatic

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

Yeah. I just hate that she calls EVERYTHING traumatic and when people point it out she’s all “I’m just kidding”. She’s also triggered mine by touching my face with no warning (ex would grab my face) and just “oh I forgot lol”

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