yeah a bar in general is a weird birthday party choice if you don’t drink

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As someone queer, NTA

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NTA (from a queer person) there’s nothing wrong with wanting to do something for YOU on your birthday. Also like #2 said it’s weird going to a bar at all when you don’t really drink

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NTA at all

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Not at all this party seems like it’s for them not you especially since you don’t drink and don’t like going out

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NTA, that’s weird. You don’t drink and it’s not a place that you’d go by yourself. It’s YOUR birthday, the party should be catered to YOU

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Nta as a straight person with a pretty queer friend group id feel similarly

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Why would they bring you to the gay bar for YOUR birthday? 😭 Like I'd get it if you were in a relationship, then it's like yeah ok. But if you're single that makes it weirder. And you don't even drink? Your friends just wanna go to the gay bar on a day that happens to be your birthday I think lol

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NTA, from a straight person that used to be queer and had twink death

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As a bi guy I get the frustration. Like it’s your birthday dude 😭

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As a queer person, that’s such a weird thing for them to do

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