AITA on Yik Yak | I don’t want to be the responsible friend anymore. I’m always the one having to remember the room keys and make sure they bring their chargers, water, plug stuff in, etc. “oh I turn off my brain when with friends” yeah think about the friend whos with you

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AITA 13w

I don’t want to be the responsible friend anymore. I’m always the one having to remember the room keys and make sure they bring their chargers, water, plug stuff in, etc. “oh I turn off my brain when with friends” yeah think about the friend whos with you

Anonymous 13w

I want to have fun too, not be a chaperone! I don’t want to have to be stressed making sure you have your things, and I don’t want to hear you complaining about the things you forgot! “I didn’t pack a water bottle” “oh I’ll just use your stuff!” “Can you put this in your bag? I didn’t bring mine” and then having to literally watch them like children so they don’t run into things/people or act inappropriate when we go to other countries, or literally YELL indoors in countries where that is rude

Anonymous 13w

Sounds like your friends are taking you for granted tbh

Anonymous 13w

Girl I think you should comment on this post tho because it could help him a lot

Anonymous 12w

As someone who has had to pull a blacked out friend out of the ocean in the middle of the night as the only sober one bc he wandered out of the hotel, you’re going to have to be very firm and just tell them straight up what you think. It isn’t just about you not having fun and them disrespecting you, it’s dangerous for your friends and the people around you.

Anonymous

OP 13w

(We are literally in Japan and almost got kicked out of a store bc they kept yelling) I feel awful for those around us. We are college students but the CHILDREN act better. Before yall say “oh they’re having fun” NO, their carelessness led to them walking into a busy street with their face in their phone!

Anonymous

OP 13w

Update, one of the friends went downstairs early and forgot their meds and is now demanding that I get them. The place we are in has strict laws on medicine.

Anonymous

OP 13w

And she also like to loudly called them drugs

Anonymous

#1 13w

The one isn’t paying attention to her surroundings and was just almost hit by a bus

Anonymous

OP 13w

I literally kept telling her to pay attention but she stopped in the middle of a road trying to take pics. Bruh

Anonymous

OP 13w

Girl this sounds so bad

Anonymous

#2 13w

I think that’s another person on this trip lol

Anonymous

OP 13w

Wait are you fr? Did you ask her about it? Or is it you?

Anonymous

#2 13w

Apparently main issue friend is leaching off of the other less responsible friends

Anonymous

OP 13w

I know but you and the poster could discuss it too right?

Anonymous

#2 13w

We started to after realizing we both posted. We all decided to not help the friend out anymore. Mostly bc we help them but there’s never help FROM them. The others are still very much less responsible than me but atleast they try to be helpful ya know. Well the one friend didn’t bring water as we walked through a forest at near 95 degree weather (Fahrenheit). We gave them some so they wouldn’t die but they got a LONG lecture

Anonymous

OP 13w

Girl she is gonna need more lectures and lessons 😭 Im glad that you and the others talked to her tho

Anonymous

#2 13w

They tried the whole “I’m just a baby” thing and I just yelled “you are NOT a baby, you are 20! YOU need to be responsible so WE don’t have to go without water!” Bc seriously they drank half the bottle that they were given. We told them we will not remind them to buy/pack water and we will not give any. This morning instead of hydrating with water they bought a coke. It’s 7AM

Anonymous

OP 13w

I hope she learns better habits later 😖