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AITA If I just ended my almost 10 year friendship with my bsf? ( I’ve slowly come to the realization that she’s quite literally becoming a mean girl on top of that I genuinely just feel unheard? or like abandoned?)
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Anonymous 5w

Have you let her known previously you have concerns? If so, how many times?

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Anonymous 5w

I’ve learned that sometimes friends just grow apart and it’s totally valid to feel the friendship isn’t serving you the way you want it to anymore. And it’s gonna feel shitty bc that’s a long time, and it’s ok if it doesn’t feel great coming out of it but at the end of the day you need to protect your peace and realize what you need to stay joyful

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I have talked with her about it and it’s been too many times to count. I feel like a damn broken record atp. Plus this isn’t the only issue that I’ve had within our friendship it’s just what I’ve slowly put together over the span of a few weeks.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Fair! I’m inclined to say NTA. Sorry youre going through this

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