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A lot of people use their mental illnesses as an excuse to be miserable and I’m tired of it
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Anonymous 6d

I do not think you understand what mental illness is

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Anonymous 6d

It’s not an excuse if the mental illness is directly causing you to be miserable bruh

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Anonymous 6d

it’s okay, take a deep breath and stop policing others. you’ll feel better! ✨

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Anonymous 6d

lmfao speaking as someone with diagnosed mental illness, everyone in this comment section is doing this exact thing. And yes, if you break your leg you SHOULD do your best to walk to the hospital. Would it be harder? Yes, but it’s not impossible. Mfers LOVE to pretend like once you’re mentally ill that’s it, and suddenly nobody’s suggestions are valid. It’s so much easier for people to say “it’s more complicated than you think” than it is for them take accountability and work on getting better.

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Anonymous 6d

I see where everyone is coming from, but I’d like to think this is about the people who refuse to get help and stew in their misery, and making it everyone’s problem

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Anonymous 5d

I’ve seen people abuse their mental health diagnoses in professional settings for benefits but i’ve mainly seen ppl struggle immensely to the point where i would congratulate them for asking for help. this isn’t the battle you should be fighting rn

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Anonymous 6d

You should reread your own post bro

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Anonymous 6d

That’s like saying my sickness don’t cause me to feel ill

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Anonymous 6d

Sybau

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Anonymous 6d

When you hurt so long sometimes you stop being able to imagine things getting better, however it’s still gross and hurtful for loved ones to see

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Anonymous 5d

people that think like this make me so unbelievably mad. you clearly have no idea

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Anonymous 6d

Honestly I agree sometimes you have to take responsibility for your own happiness

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Anonymous 6d

i have some mental illness and i do understand where you’re coming from. it’s frustrating to see someone not get better but it’s equally frustrating and also draining to do basic human things. i would say mental illness isn’t an excuse to be a bad person but an explanation. mental illness isn’t an excuse to be miserable but it is the cause of misery

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Anonymous 5d

god YES. it’s the same thing as ppl using neurodivergence as an excuse to be lazy. the world will not accommodate some of ur symptoms SO U HAVE TO ACCOMMODATE URSELF. i have time blindness like a mf and i forget things all the time. so i set alarms and reminders. i have a mood disorder and sometimes cant control myself. so i excuse myself before i have outbursts. U HAVE TO ACCOMODATE URSELF.

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Anonymous 6d

How about: someones mental disability doesnt excuse what you say. My roomate is on the spectrum and is always blurting out blatantly rude comments. I made cookies and bro walks out and said my cookies looked like a mess, other day brodie called me weird for having diet soda (bros also 300 lbs). Like what

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Anonymous 5d

i agree that people should be held accountable for their behavior, but doing so by rejecting any form of understanding is not it 😭 this particular critique is very half-baked and doesn’t make much sense, but that’s yik yak for you

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Anonymous 5d

Fr like stop being a crybaby loser😂

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Anonymous 6d

Some of yall don’t know Leo Skepi and it shows. Lock in and pick yourself up I love you

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Anonymous 5d

mental illness isn’t real.

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Anonymous 6d

Sometimes the illness doesn’t allow you to

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Anonymous 6d

Yeah a life circumstance like being born with genetics predisposing you to mental illness🙃 I didn't say anything about wanting people to feel bad. If you have a mental illness making you miserable, the illness is not an "excuse" for your misery, it is the cause. Calling it an excuse is dismissive and disrespectful. If someone breaks their leg, you can’t say they’re wallowing in their own misery for not walking themselves to the hospital.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 6d

no it’s more like saying because you’re sick you can’t do your homework. it’s gonna be hard but it’s possible

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 6d

definitely!! like yes it’s hard but there are people who are literally diagnosed with sociopathic tendencies and they have learned to just be a good person. if you don’t have nothing to say then don’t say anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6d

Can both not be true at the same time? Yes of course people will use “it’s more complicated than you think” as an excuse to not try and manage, but it is often more complicated depending on your life circumstances and the severity of your illness. You can take accountability and MANAGE your symptoms (not just getting better), while acknowledging that it is often more complicated than people realize, and that everyone’s timeline is different. - someone with adhd

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 5d

real.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 5d

you truly have no idea what it’s like to have severe mental illness to the point where unaliving yourself sounds better than trying again and again for nothing. it’s like trying to run a marathon with 1000 pounds of your shoulders, while everyone else is just light as a feather running past you in life. so hush

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 5d

that is NOT what they were saying and u just wanted an excuse to be cruel

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 5d

Wa wa baby💀

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