lmfao speaking as someone with diagnosed mental illness, everyone in this comment section is doing this exact thing. And yes, if you break your leg you SHOULD do your best to walk to the hospital. Would it be harder? Yes, but it’s not impossible. Mfers LOVE to pretend like once you’re mentally ill that’s it, and suddenly nobody’s suggestions are valid. It’s so much easier for people to say “it’s more complicated than you think” than it is for them take accountability and work on getting better.
i have some mental illness and i do understand where you’re coming from. it’s frustrating to see someone not get better but it’s equally frustrating and also draining to do basic human things. i would say mental illness isn’t an excuse to be a bad person but an explanation. mental illness isn’t an excuse to be miserable but it is the cause of misery
god YES. it’s the same thing as ppl using neurodivergence as an excuse to be lazy. the world will not accommodate some of ur symptoms SO U HAVE TO ACCOMMODATE URSELF. i have time blindness like a mf and i forget things all the time. so i set alarms and reminders. i have a mood disorder and sometimes cant control myself. so i excuse myself before i have outbursts. U HAVE TO ACCOMODATE URSELF.
How about: someones mental disability doesnt excuse what you say. My roomate is on the spectrum and is always blurting out blatantly rude comments. I made cookies and bro walks out and said my cookies looked like a mess, other day brodie called me weird for having diet soda (bros also 300 lbs). Like what
Yeah a life circumstance like being born with genetics predisposing you to mental illness🙃 I didn't say anything about wanting people to feel bad. If you have a mental illness making you miserable, the illness is not an "excuse" for your misery, it is the cause. Calling it an excuse is dismissive and disrespectful. If someone breaks their leg, you can’t say they’re wallowing in their own misery for not walking themselves to the hospital.
Can both not be true at the same time? Yes of course people will use “it’s more complicated than you think” as an excuse to not try and manage, but it is often more complicated depending on your life circumstances and the severity of your illness. You can take accountability and MANAGE your symptoms (not just getting better), while acknowledging that it is often more complicated than people realize, and that everyone’s timeline is different. - someone with adhd
you truly have no idea what it’s like to have severe mental illness to the point where unaliving yourself sounds better than trying again and again for nothing. it’s like trying to run a marathon with 1000 pounds of your shoulders, while everyone else is just light as a feather running past you in life. so hush