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AITA 1w
was having dinner with a friend and spoke about a guy i have a crush on. i kinda said he was nice but no further personality. he was sitting right behind me and I had no clue. yes ITA but it wasn’t out of malice more so confusion, but i still feel bad
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Anonymous 1w

Look on the bright side, if he actually is bland, he can work on developing his personality by exploring new hobbies and interests.

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Anonymous 1w

idk i think my brain is just too overactive and i let my worst thoughts out before i could really think about it

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Anonymous 1w

if you have a crush on him, is it purely because of his looks? bc if not then you clearly like something abt his personality

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

yes, but issue is that we work together…i have to see him later this week. im absolutely mortified but worst case scenario he completely ignores me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

People are rarely confrontational. But if he is, just own up to it but don’t be a dick about it. Then move on. In any case, just continue as usual and don’t be weird about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i did like his personality but i realized that he’s just nice like that to everyone at work. maybe i misinterpreted my interactions with him and now i feel stupid bc i realized that he acts differently with his friends/ non-work people. i speculated he was masking his personality to just be “nice” but i couldn’t come up with a reason why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i see what you mean, just because he’s nice to everyone doesn’t meann you two cant build a special bond. if you’re interested, you could become someone he doesn’t have to mask around

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

yes but now he’s just heard me question his motives for behaving the way he does and he’s most likely not going to want anything to do with me (it feels like i was talking bad about him…) i don’t think he’s gonna respond so positively to that

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