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AITA 3w
Y’all so I broke up with my emotionally abusive bf and I feel so bad bc I do love him but like I’m always the bad guy to him it feels like and everyone tells me I’m not but I feel crazy bc he somehow always finds something that’s “hurtful” in what I said
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Anonymous 3w

I was in a very bad emotionally abusive relationship for almost a year. And I admit I definitely did some toxic things back to him. But you have to realize those toxic behaviors may be just because of how he’s been treating you. I’m sure you’re a great person outside of the relationship, he may just be hurting you to the point it’s making you defend yourself. It will get better I promise

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Anonymous 3w

girl that was me too and js know thats js their way in getting u to comfort them and live by THEIR emotions since they r too immature to confront themselves that theyre the bad person. u deserve someone who understands ur needs and shouldnt make u feel like ur an asshole for speaking up on whats hurting u. ur person will do everything u want and more bbg

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Awe thank you I really appreciate it, like I know I’ve done some not nice things in the relationship but it doesn’t compare and he’s taken so much energy from me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Thank you!! 🩷

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