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AITA if I block the guy who’s been trying to hit on me for >a year? I clearly friendzoned him from the start and started straight ignoring him altogether when he wouldn’t take a hint and kept trying to make a move. I hesitate bc we have lot of mutuals
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Anonymous 4d

NTA

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Anonymous 4d

In what world would this make you the asshole😭 if you feel comfortable/safe enough to do it by all means go ahead and do so, and if your mutuals know/find out why he’s blocked and still take it out on you, then you know where you guys stand <33

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Whenever I express how weird I feel about him messaging me my friends always just think its funny that he’s so persistent and joke that he’s “so in love” and I should give him a chance 😕

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Thank you for this take though ❤️❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

maybe it’s just because they’re not understanding how uncomfortable you are and it’s just easier to joke about it and put it aside than confront the problem and potentially have to rid themselves of a friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

I agree that this could be a possibility. Because he’s making you uncomfortable, next time they tell you to give him a chance definitely put your foot down. Either way it looks like they risk losing a friend, me personally I’d rather take the person getting hit on seriously and lose the guy who isn’t taking no for an answer. Worst case scenario you lose people who might not have your back in the future, but at least in that same future you can find people who will actually have your back

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