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oraturn

AITA for getting into a relationship with someone i was sleeping with while i was still figuring out what i wanted and then figuring out i don’t want them/am not attracted to them romantically.
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Anonymous 16w

This is wild, legit went through the same exact situation abt 6 months ago. Nta but would def reccomend ending things sooner rather than later if you know how you feel. I wasn’t sure one way or the other and ended up dating for abt 5 months before I broke up with her and it really hurt her, should have done a lot of things differently

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Anonymous 16w

Dating is about figuring out if you work together, it’s okay if you don’t

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Anonymous 16w

How long did u dats them for

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Anonymous 16w

I mean yea, fosho, but how could you have known? It’s difficult to know your feelings about someone if you’re sleeping with them, def something scientific but idk. It’s sucks but know you know for the future.

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Anonymous 16w

I kinda think you’re TA because you’re playing with their feelings by entering an entire relationship with them and then changing your mind shortly after. You should have known better than to commit to someone without knowing for sure if you’re even attracted to them. It just seems really immature and like you’re not considering how your actions affect others. Don’t force the relationship tho, just please be gentle and kind with them as you tell them how you feel

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