Hi OP, this is a much broader problem. He values the internet culture over you. He would rather be part of the internet than focus on you. You are secondary and the internet is primary to him. Any form of reconciliation would be for him to decide if this internet culture comes first before you. Many have this problem. It may not be where they are on their phone a lot but who they are communicating that overtime builds relationships that you do not know of.

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it sounds like you want to stay with him, if i’m reading the room right? i think you should leave him, if you want a no bs answer then continue reading, if not then ignore this. he doesn’t seem that invested in you or the relationship. dump him and find someone who values you, your thoughts, and your time. in a relationship communication is key, how are you going to communicate with him if he doesn’t even listen to you?

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Why did you even start dating this man??

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Update:

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it sounds like as soon as you were locked in as “a couple” he felt he didn’t have to put in effort anymore. a huge thing i’ve observed w my friends when they check out of a relationship is doing the bare minimum (emotional support) but their hearts aren’t in it to pay attention to everything else. i think you could definitely try talking it out and seeing if yall would be able to work it out, but if not, i don’t think this is something you deserve to suffer long term

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Good question, I’m sorry you have to deal with this :(

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