Anonymous #1 1w

nope. I know my life better than you and I said what I said. I’m actually the one who has first hand experience with these men, hope this helps

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Anonymous OP 1w

You definitely know your life better than I know your life, and you definitely said what you said. But if you ACTUALLY knew what’s going on with your coworkers, you wouldn’t have posed this question on a public forum seeking advice/affirmation. They don’t want to talk at the moment, leave them alone

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Anonymous #1 1w

who the fuck said anything about co workers

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Anonymous #1 1w

you’re so fucking dumb. made up a whole scenario in your head and then tried correcting ME about MY life twice. so pathetic

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Anonymous #2 1w

right before I made this post I was talking to one of said men. and I ASKED if I could talk about myself again and he was like “please, continue.” so I was. and then he out of nowhere went from a full conversation to just replying “great. amazing. cool” so I was like “okay you’re clearly over this conversation” and he was like “yeah I’m kinda bored. goodnight” like ??? then maybe come up with something to talk about. it doesn’t always have to be me

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Anonymous OP 1w

what a dick omg? it seems like he wasn’t interested in having a conversation at all but he could’ve communicated that..? i wouldn’t waste more time on him. hopefully better men come your way LOL

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Anonymous #2 1w

we’d been in the “talking stage” for like a week. had been having a great conversation up to that point. I just immediately blocked him after he said that bc I don’t have time for a grown man to pout bc I didn’t hold his hand and help him change the topic to whatever he wanted to talk about

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Anonymous OP 1w

Bud you’re the one who “made up a scenario” then claimed you know it better than me😂 and you’re heated about it😂😂😂

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Anonymous #2 1w

OR… get this - he doesn’t want to talk at the moment but he doesn’t want to be the asshole that says “I don’t want to talk to you right now” so he gives one liner responses hoping you don’t respond back

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Anonymous #1 1w

genuinely what the fuck are you on about 💀 my life is a made up scenario ? but you just projecting and deciding that MY post about MY life is about co workers isn’t made up ? whatever helps you sleep at night baby, I’m sorry you don’t have basic reading comprehension skills

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Anonymous #1 1w

literally no one asked you 💀 go keep making fake scenarios in the other thread. #2 and I are trying to have an actual discussion

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Anonymous #1 1w

you sound like someone who can’t communicate if you think being dry is better than communicating that you aren’t in the mood to chat at the moment. also the fact that you just made up details about my life that aren’t true shows you’re more in your head than actually listening and having a conversation. you AND him are people I don’t want in my life. I want adults who act like adults in my life.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Pretty sure I’ve communicated my thoughts on this question pretty effectively. I don’t need to add in additional details to do that, so I don’t. Sometimes, people do enjoy listening to those extra details. Sometimes, people do not.

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Anonymous #1 1w

you’re just gonna pretend like you didn’t add the fake detail that it was my co workers ?? when it’s literally right there for everyone to see. or how you keep doubling down on “well he just didn’t want to talk to you in that moment” as if I wasn’t there experiencing it myself and I’m the one that knows him, not you. you better hope you’re pretty bc your brains aren’t getting you anywhere. don’t waste my time again, I’ll just block you, as I do with all stupid people clearly

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Anonymous OP 1w

good for you! i’m sorry it didn’t work but yeah just don’t bother at all with men who are unable to effectively communicate at their grown ages. #1 seems to be the men in question ahahah.

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Anonymous #3 1w

I did. they asked me something, I’d answer. if I had more to say then I’d say it. I didn’t need them to invite me to say more with follow up questions. they’re free to do the same. I don’t have to walk them through how to have a conversation

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