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AITA for having celebrity crushes and talking to someone I’m dating about them? Like I’ll send them things regarding their music or accomplishments cause I’m excited about it and every once in awhile I’ll talk abt their looks but is that bad?
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Anonymous 15w

Yes. Nobody wants to hear about their partner having a crush on somebody else. Ever.

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Anonymous 15w

I’m always talking about Angela white!!

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Anonymous 15w

ask your partner how they feel about it

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Anonymous 15w

For context it’s also a celebrity that I’ve been infatuated with since I was 14, I’m 20 now

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Anonymous 15w

Kinda

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Anonymous 15w

these ppl are so insecure oh my god 😭😭 no u r not the asshole dude lmfao u have zero chances of ever getting with said celebrity and ur allowed to find other human beings attractive and still be in love with just one. My man and i both have celebrity crushes we talk about and i hype the girls up cause im not too worried abt them snagging him up😭😭 idk man to me that’s just a really silly thing to get upset over

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

If the only reason your relationship is still a thing is because neither of your actual crushes would give you a chance then that’s pretty pathetic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

u have to be genuinely delusional to think a CELEBRITY crush would give you a chance… be SO fr rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Celebrity crushes aren’t “actual crushes”. It’s just for fun, if you can’t have a little lighthearted fun in your relationship and would be willing to cause an issue over a celebrity crush then you’re the pathetic one lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

No fr, you gotta be entirely out of your mind if you think 1) people can ONLY be attracted to their partner and no one else, ever 2) there’s even a crumb of a chance they’d be able to act on a celebrity crush in a way that crosses a boundary 💀 The only scenario I can think of is being a genuine stalker or spending ridiculous amounts of money and time on your celeb crush, but that’s a whole other issue atp

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

i’m saying like i didn’t even acknowledge the second part of what they said abt how that’s the “only” reason my relationships a thing like be so fr rn they are def not well in the head lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

How is there no chance? Celebrities r humans too they live on earth. That makes no sense. They’re not these different entities bcuz their famous. And yea being attracted to ppl is normal but you wouldn’t constantly talk about other ppl and how hot they are to ur partner. Celebs r no different just more well known so that’s dumb

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 15w

so back to my reply on #1 you’d have to be genuinely delusional to think you’d have a chance w a celebrity crush. like seriously cmon dude it is not that deep. I have a crush on ryan reynolds that doesn’t mean i’ll ever be with him cause he’s married, way older, and i have literally zero way of meeting him. pls get a grip w reality for a second im not holding them higher than myself im just realistic😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

Clearly you can’t read, since you are only reinforcing my point. You would leave your partner in a heartbeat if your celebrity crush said they wanted you. That is incredibly sad for both you and your partner.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

lol ur putting words in my mouth and making vast assumptions based on minor details. pls go outside and touch some grass if you take everything this seriously.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Idk about 4, and maybe you would, but I definitely wouldn’t leave my fiancé for any celebrity.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

If you are in a relationship then you should not be entertaining thoughts of having crushes on other people. If you are then you are not ready for a relationship, and will not be successful in one. And again, you are reinforcing my point that the only reason you haven’t left your partner for this other person is because you don’t have the chance, and if you did then you would.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

there’s no point to reinforce babe your using fallacies to try and prove something that isn’t there. just accept the fact that we’re in perfectly healthy relationships capable of finding other humans beings attractive. if it hurts you that bad do as i said and pls go touch grass

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

I wouldn’t leave my fiancé, who I have been with for 4+ healthy, happy years, for a random stranger who happens to be hot and famous 😭 it’s not that deep. People find other people attractive, single or not. That’s life dawg

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

I wouldn’t leave my partner for a celebrity because I don’t have crushes on celebrities. You should not have crushes on other people when you are in a relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

pls read🫶🏼 we don’t have to follow life by ur rules

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Aight man, you do you. I’ll continue openly sharing celeb crushes with my secure fiancé and hear him out on his

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

You made a post on a public social forum, literally inviting other people’s opinions.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

Get back to me after the divorce

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

LMAO you wish 😭 what an odd thing to say to someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

It’s a Friday night and yall arguing on Sidechat bruh go out do something read a book😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 15w

It’s a Friday night and you’re reading through someone else’s conversation on yikyak.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

I commented earlier and it keeps sending notifs I’m out rn😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 15w

Yikyak* but some of us have work unfortunately

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 15w

Turn them off then. They made a whole slider for it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

Then do ur work 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 15w

I don’t have anything to do rn 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Yeah ur a weirdo for that they don't even know u exist

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Anonymous 15w

#10 » #3 Just now .. You are NOT a weirdo only a strange, sensitive, insecure, etc. person would have a problem w you liking someone you don't even have the chance of meeting/talking to. UNLESS ur partner has specifically told u they're uncomfy w it or would rather u not talk abt it be they do feel some type of way. But truly it's not that deep

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