Yeah so he’s manipulating and gaslighting you! Minimizing your feelings about the severity of the issue (which is not a small issue btw ur totally valid to feel confused and hurt) is how he deflects accountability. In the nicest way possible, stand up. Don’t let him threaten leaving you, stop begging him to stay. If he wanted to leave u, first of all, he would have. If not for your own self respect, let that be enough to give u the strength to leave. You’re better without him I promise 🤍

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But he also has admitted that he did check out women on there during the first year of our relationship

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And he would always get mad that I pestered him about it because the concerns were childish and he’d never care who I looked at on Instagram and he wasn’t talking to any of the girls

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He deleted it after years of me nagging him to stop liking shit and has said to me he knows he wasn’t doing anything and he wishes I could see myself the way he sees me and then I’d know it was ok

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But that it “meant nothing” and he didn’t see the harm

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cheat on him

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But again this was two years ago since he’s even has the app and I just am still talking about it trying to figure out why he followed so many girls and it’s made him actually depressed and I still didn’t stop and he always tries to leave me and I beg him to stay with me so am I low key insane probably

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