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AITA 4w
went on a date with a guy who bought me dinner and some flowers. I didn’t kiss him because I just didn’t want to. He was coming off very strong and cold calling me during the day randomly. Couldn’t stand it anymore and unfriended him. AITA?
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Anonymous 4w

Was gonna say YTA until I read that you didn’t ghost, you actually rejected him NTA

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Anonymous 4w

ALSO: The day after the date, I messaged him that I thought he was nice but that I didn’t match his energy and didn’t want to lead him on. I tried my best to let him down easy but he was just crossing too many personal boundaries

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Anonymous 4w

Damn tf is this guy

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Anonymous 4w

Love bombing

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Anonymous 3w

NTA

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

another thing…During the date I asked to be home at a specific time, but he stalled for another HOUR. It was just really irritating cus he would stop the car in the middle of the way to keep yapping. Ik this sounds mean but the date had already been over 4 hours and I wanted to get home and sleep…lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

whew. Good to know. I used to be a pretty bad serial ghoster. But I am trying to change this about myself and sent a really nice message, kindly rejecting him.

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