AITA on Yik Yak | AITA for wanting my bf to get a job and take me out? He hadn’t had a job for a year due to a situation however it’s been months and he can have one now. I’ve paid for myself every single time and we can’t go on dates bc he doesn’t have money for himself.

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AITA for wanting my bf to get a job and take me out? He hadn’t had a job for a year due to a situation however it’s been months and he can have one now. I’ve paid for myself every single time and we can’t go on dates bc he doesn’t have money for himself.

Anonymous 1d

Idc what the situation is, there is always a way to make dough. He should never have let himself not have a job for a full year especially if for the last few months he could have gotten one. I say leave his ass, he obviously is not a motivated person and you don’t want to go through life with someone like that

Anonymous 2d

NTA- part of dating IS going on dates. If he’s now able to work and actively choosing not to the it’s bound to it impact your relationship. Whether that’s how you spend your time together/separately it shows a difference in values. It’s really hard and uncomfortable to talk about so I wish you luck🫶

Anonymous 9h

nta, not only will him getting a job better your relationship , it’ll also help him better himself . maybe try to job search with him or slowly try to suggest it! good luck

Anonymous

#3 9h

I’ve gave him many opportunities but I think he’s comfortable

Anonymous

OP 8h

hm. i guess now it’s up to you whether you wanna keep dealing with it…you can try to lead him towards help, but ultimately he has to be the one to take it. you can’t force him. it’s also not your obligation to help him, especially if it starts to take a toll on you…you deserve to be taken on dates :/ idk i would definitely be weighing my options if i were you.

Anonymous

#3 7h

You’re right and I am weighing them so bad right now😔

Anonymous

#1 7h

Thank you, you’re absolutely right I may need to go back to being single🥹

Anonymous

OP 7h

WEIGH THEM HARDER BBY 💔let this be his wake up call

Anonymous

#3 7h

YOURE SO RIGHT LIKE WHY AM I SPENDING MY B-DAY ALONE?!?!? He didn’t buy me anything or take me out and I did for his birthday😭😭😭

Anonymous

OP 7h

GIRL RESPECTFULLY HELL NO GET THIS MAN OUTTA HERE WHAT!! 😭that makes this 10 times worse wtf . come over rn and i’ll celebrate with you cus that’s literally insanity

Anonymous

#3 7h

It’s my 21st too😭. Omg I LUV U- UR SO FUNNY!!!!

Anonymous

OP 7h

GIRL NOOO YOU SHOULD BE AT THE CLUBB NOT FINDING YOUR MAN A JOB 💔girl i luv u too and this is why im going to hold your hand when i say that you need to realizeee that you’re just too good for him im sorry

Anonymous

#3 7h

I KNOWWWWWWW- ima let him go after my bday bc I want to enjoy my solo Plans😛

Anonymous

OP 7h

OKAY IM CHEERING YOU ON

Anonymous

#3 7h

THANK YOU QUEEN!!!!

Anonymous

#2 7h

You bring many valid points! I don’t think he will be motivated bc he’s comfortable rn. His parents pay his bills so all he has to do is show up to class☹️