NTA. Considering it’s just the two of you in the apartment she should have consulted you. Also “relearn empathy”??? Bruh be so fr, she clearly has none for you

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Has she tried therapy for that empathy problem? She’s lost the plot cause she could be empathetic to you and your allergies about this but is choosing not to 😭

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your lifelong best friend sounds wack as hell

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Tell her the first step in learning empathy is learning to consider the people around you when making these decisions

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She says she needs it to help her relearn empathy, which i think is a good thing but not at the expense of my allergies yk?? She says that having something pure and wholesome will teach her the fundamentals of empathy again

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