AITA on Yik Yak | my friend’s best friend (we will call her megan) has a son turning 3 in august, i was invited to the birthday party. megan & her son has only seen me at only birthday parties, either of his own or our mutual friend’s son’s birthday parties. the only time

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AITA 12w

my friend’s best friend (we will call her megan) has a son turning 3 in august, i was invited to the birthday party. megan & her son has only seen me at only birthday parties, either of his own or our mutual friend’s son’s birthday parties. the only time

Anonymous 12w

megan reaches out to me, is only in person & only thing she talks to me about is asking me how my dogs are doing. megan has a twin sister (we will call her lisa). a couple months ago, lisa made up rumors to megan saying that i sent nudes to megan’s baby daddy on snap. i told them both that i didn’t& the username used my name but wrong spelling. megan apologized. lisa didn’t apologize & still told the whole friend group.

Anonymous 12w

the rumors happened back in august of last year. i’ve reached out to the twins being like i hope y’all are doing well from time to time. megan invited me to her son’s birthday party that is a 3 and a half hour round trip.. AITA if i don’t go to the birthday party?? the kid doesn’t know me. i feel like an outsider when i hang with them cause i don’t have kids nor a significant other.. cause i chose to put my education first & focus on my master’s degree

Anonymous 12w

i spoke to my ex sister in law about it (who’s also in the friend group & has my back). she says that the twins are being assholes cause the twins will say people are fake when they don’t show up for things for her & her son when she’s invited them out. the twins both hold grudges & don’t apologize to anyone for anything nor be accountable for their actions & behavior.

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OP 12w

They sounds like they’re still stuck in high school in the sense that they participate in high school level drama and pettiness. Just because they invite someone to an event does not mean that person is obligated to go. People have their own lives and wants and neither of those revolve around the twins (like they apparently think they should). I wouldn’t be surprised if they talk about everyone in the group behind their back. They’ve already stooped to false rumors and calling their friends fake

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#1 12w

i wholeheartedly agree. cause my ex sister in law (she’s my ex fiancé’s older brother’s ex fiancé. we’ve always been close), she would invite the twins for her son’s birthday party or get the kids together (her kid is close in age with their kids)& the twins would say they’d make it but cancel last minute or they would say they’d come but not show up. but they always show up for the mutual friend& her kid’s events.

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#1 12w

plus i’m not the type of person to go out of my way to be with my friend’s or someone i know’s baby daddy. megan’s baby daddy cheated on her while he was deployed overseas, throughout her whole pregnancy, his staff sergeant told her of what happened after giving birth. that’s all i know about him. i know his name from when she talks about him. but i don’t care for him, i don’t care to know him. in my past, i have been attacked for the same thing but there’s never been proof (cause i’ve never

Anonymous

OP 12w

done anything). it’s just frustrating cause they expect me to me all kind & show up to their kids’ birthday parties& act like nothing ever happened. the time that they said that they claim i was doing that was when i was in college & grad school (social worker here), being in classes 3 days a week for 8 hours, internship 3 days a week 9 hour days, plus homework.. like i don’t have the time for myself let alone other people!!