Nah bc my mom cried when I wouldn’t open up to her about why I was upset once (it was her being hella rude ofc) and she broke down sobbing, telling me I was “hurting her heart” and that she’s “worked so hard” to be a safe space for me, unlike what she had with her parents… when I tell you I had to walk away before I peed myself from laughing! Bc how can you be that delusional?? In what world does it make sense to de terrible to someone, and then get upset when they won’t come to you?
My parents never ask me about my personal life, had a bf for 5 yrs and the one time I tried showing my mom a picture (2 yrs into it) she shoved her hand in my face and turned her head away. Never asked about him or how it was going before or after we broke up. People think it’s rude I don’t visit on holidays but why would I when we only talk if someone dies lol
my mom always tries talking me out of things (like going to college, job ideas, moving away) and also constantly tries to get me to work in jobs SHE finds interesting, has been asking me when she’s getting grandkids since like my freshman year of college, lies to people about my future plans and tells them what she wants me to do bc I don’t tell her anymore