Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
AITA for not paying for my bf? when we go out to eat we take turns paying. but this time I wasn’t hungry & just ordered drinks while he ate. I said I’d just pay for my drinks separately & he got offended I wouldn’t buy his meal
upvote 3 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 15w

I can see where you're both coming from tbh

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 15w

You’re not the asshole lol but make sure you would have let him know in advance before going to the restaurant or ordering or sum

upvote -2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

What kind of sense does that make though? She didn’t eat…?

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

I told him I wasn’t hungry prior to going out. I also cooked & bought a bunch of food for us so we didn’t have to go out lol

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

why would I have to pay for his meal? explain please

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

I didn't say you have to pay?

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

I was just saying i understand why he wouldve misunderstood but I also understand why you wouldn't pay...

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

The sense is communication. Obviously there’s not all the context every single detail in the post

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Yeah he’s krazy ur not the asshole don’t let it get to you 👍

upvote 1 downvote