AITA on Yik Yak | My boyfriend is away for Fourth of July and hasn’t responded to my text in 25 hours am I dumb for being upset at that?? Is that clingy?? I’m not looking for a full conversation but just a passing I love you or I miss you idk

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AITA 1d

My boyfriend is away for Fourth of July and hasn’t responded to my text in 25 hours am I dumb for being upset at that?? Is that clingy?? I’m not looking for a full conversation but just a passing I love you or I miss you idk

Anonymous 1d

No. This is standard i fear. He should def say something.

Anonymous 1d

Op I’m sorry everyone is convinced that he’s cheating on you. I’m so surprised that people aren’t considering how much energy can be drained by family. Even enjoying being with family can be exhausting. Running around, doing errands, cooking, trying to be civil. Don’t make a mistake that you shouldn’t be upset, and if you feel like you need more attention you need to talk about it.

Anonymous 1d

Think about it like this, if you plan on a future with him and you have a family and a household together, would you accept this type of behavior? This is the type of behavior you will get from this person.

Anonymous 1d

Nobody is that bad at texting. Honey…run.

Anonymous 1d

I’m dating a girl who grew up in Mexico but lives in the US. If I go an hour without answering her I get hit with a chancla next time I see her

Anonymous 1d

Holy he finally responded and said he’s dead tired so he’s going to bed and will call me tomorrow I am so pissed rn ugh

Anonymous 1d

If you can’t talk to him/ are afraid to then you need to communicate that to him. Communication is key in a relationship (in any relationship tbh) but especially in a romantic one. If it takes time to convince him to communicate more, then that’s what you have to do and it’s obviously worth it. But if you try and work on this for weeks/months and nothing has changed, then it’s time to be concerned. You just have to talk to him and get more used to expressing your feelings and thoughts to him

Anonymous 1d

In the grand scheme of things a year and a half is nothing. If he’s showing signs like this so early on it will only get worse. Don’t ignore red flags, this isn’t a carnival.

Anonymous 1d

no girl my boyfriend lives 3k miles from me… guess what girl if i send him a text he will respond within 5 hours unless he has a legitimate reason to be busy. but he has never i. the history of our 2 year relationship left my texts unresolved for more than 20 hours

Anonymous 18h

2-4 hours? Understandable. 25 tho??? He doesn’t love you like you love him

Anonymous 1d

Boys get defensive when they think they’re about to get caught.

Anonymous

#1 1d

Ok that’s what I was thinking. I probably wouldn’t care as much but we go long distance in a year and he’s so bad at texting this stuff just stresses me out so bad

Anonymous

#2 1d

We’ve been together for like a year and a half I don’t wanna leave him I love him so much I just don’t know how to bring it up in conversation 😔 it’s so hard staying mad at him when we’re talking I need to lock tf in

Anonymous

OP 1d

Only thing id say is 25 hours is concerning but not earth shattering

Anonymous

#1 1d

Okok

Anonymous

#2 1d

Thanks this is making me feel less like a clingy psycho

Anonymous

#2 1d

I texted again and still no answer we’re at the 26 hour mark I think we’re gonna actually have to fight about this one and if nothing changes I need to go I guess

Anonymous

OP 1d

I think we both know why he’s not responding baby…..

Anonymous

#2 1d

?? He’s not cheating on me he’s with his family in south dakota

Anonymous

OP 1d

Could’ve met an old friend, a new one, could have someone else there with him and his family instead of you. Never believe what they say. It’s either a half truth or a complete lie.

Anonymous

#2 1d

They go every year and I have his and his sisters location so unless he’s cheating on me with her I’m safe lol, they’re together right now

Anonymous

#3 1d

Ye thats over the top tho

Anonymous

OP 1d

They’re his family. Not your friends. They’ll always take his side and cover for him. Speaking from experience.

Anonymous

#2 1d

Sorry your past relationships were bad but I trust him even if I’m upset with him for being a bad texter. He wouldn’t cheat and I know it sounds crazy to say that definitively but I know his sister wouldn’t support that either

Anonymous

OP 1d

Okay love best of luck to ya. Hopefully you’re right and he’s not off with some other chick and hiding his phone so she thinks hes single. Best of luck.

Anonymous

#2 1d

Yeah I hope so too, I’ll think of you if I’m wrong though haha. I appreciate your input w this stuff though

Anonymous

OP 1d

👀 he could be taking that time to make an excuse/cover story and get everyone “on the same page.”

Anonymous

#2 1d

Still don’t think he’s cheating just think he’s an absolute ass rn

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Anonymous 1d

Chat holy Christ can we rule out cheating Ik this bitch ain’t cheating he’s in the middle of nowhere on his family farm bro 😭

Anonymous 1d

Yup and he’s getting defensive cause he thinks he’s caught and he’s gonna use the night to come up with a story and get his family on board in the morning.

Anonymous

OP 1d

All men are liars. I hate it for you that you don’t know/see the pattern yet.

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Anonymous

#5 1d

Thank u idk why everyone is so convinced that everyone is a cheater 😭 im gonna talk to him tomorrow when he’s back in town from his trip and hopefully we can figure it out

Anonymous

#2 1d

Good luck finding one with that attitude 😭😭