I feel you on that. Where I live it’s mandatory that maintenance people etc who works at my complex can come in my apartment at any time even if they knock and no one answers. Every time they come in (manly men) I freak out on them. Somehow I’m always somewhat naked when they come in and head upstairs to my room🙄😡 but yeah tell the Roomate thats fucked
i was just minding my damn business chillin in my living room when the front door flew open, i nearly shit my pants dude. they just walked on in here like they pay rent and asked me where my roommate’s cat was. what happened to knocking? if i was sent to someone else’s place to check on their cat, even if they said there’s nobody home, i’m knocking first. maybe i have the wrong house, i don’t wanna get my life subscription ended because i didn’t knock before trying the lock at crazy joe’s house
i keep wireless hole punchers at home, and while i don’t think i would have ever used it on someone in this situation unless someone came in clearly ready to beat my ass, they’re still very lucky they didn’t open that door to find a muzzle in their face. i almost grabbed one when i heard the door swing open. only reason i didn’t is because i wasn’t sure if it was my roommate coming home early or if it was something else, i didn’t want to assume the worst immediately.
he didn’t ask me if i was okay with having some people come by to check on the cat. he didn’t ask me if i was comfortable with someone i don’t know having a key to our house and free reign to enter when they’d like. he didn’t ask if there would be a good time for them to come by. the only thing he asked me was to watch his cat, and i agreed to that and have been doing so. he sent people here anyway.