
You’re justified in how you felt when she treated you that way, and arguably justified in snapping back, but she’s your mom and if she’s anything like mine, no matter how right and justified you are, she’ll never see it your way so there’s no real winning these types of situations. If you think it could work I’d try talking to her later and explaining your side of things so she knows why you reacted the way you did while apologizing for how things went and maybe she will understand better.
But if you think that’ll just lead to more issues, then obviously you’re better off not talking to her more about it and will unfortunately have to figure out how to deal with her or figure out alternative living arrangements bc ultimately you can’t affect how people act, just how you react to it.