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My grandma won’t go to my bfs (of 3 years) grad party because she has card club that night, which happens every single Saturday, his graduation happens once. I think it’s very rude to not go, but WIBTA if I said something to her about it?
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Anonymous 7w

I mean have her send a card. Unless her and your bf are super close it’s lowkey kinda weird she’s invited ngl

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Anonymous 7w

I feel like she’s kind of far removed, if she doesn’t wanna go, does your boyfriend really care?

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Anonymous 7w

your grandma doesn’t have to go 😭 plus it’s kinda weird that she’s invited

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Yeah this. If they’re close and you bring him over her house all the time it makes sense for her to drop by but it’s going to be a grad party full of his family and friends so she’ll known no one there except like you and a couple of your family members (which isn’t the point of a party obviously it’s to celebrate the person) but it’s your gmom I don’t think this is a hill worth dying on

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